Mr. D

My 25 year old virgin....Mr. D. WOW! How did I get so lucky! Mr. D is my cousin's best friend of 20 some odd years. And since he knows me and my hardships decided to set me up with him on my 28th birthday. So we met and hit it off from the very first sight! We would call each other and keep in contact at least 3 times a week. One thing with Mr. D though.....he is a workaholic! Meaning he never takes a day off! In the 4 months that we dated, we spent maybe 10 days together. He only lives about 30 minutes away from me. I would always go down to see him. He never came up to see me. My guy friends.......Mr. J1 (I will get to him later) and Mr. C......"you are just a booty call!" This was not the case at all! The farthest that we got was sleeping in the same bed together. Yes we kissed but that's pretty much as far as it went. I enjoyed my time that I got to spend with him. Our only flaw was......communication! We could talk about everyone else and everything except our relationship. I shut down when I was around him because I was just so stoked that we were together. Not once did our relationship come up. I would talk to my cousin constantly about it.....he would say "I talked to your better half" or "I just got off the phone with your boyfriend". I would correct him and state that he was not my boyfriend, even though I acted as if he was. Come to find out, Mr. D was telling people that I was his girlfriend. Through the months that we dated......we made plans to go to Apple Cup together.....that's where the Huskies play the Cougars.....it's a HUGE football weekend. Needless to say, I am no longer going. :( Anyways, we had also made plans to go to Ellensburg for Labor Day weekend together. The weekend came and I drove over with my mother, father, and nephew who is 8. I called Mr. D to find out the final plans and got his voicemail......like normal. He called me right back and left me a voicemail stating that he was getting ready to get on a plane. I didn't think much of this. The next day we talked on the phone and he had told me that he was flying back from California for business.......which is not unusual. So he was tierd and didn't drive over. I got back late Sunday night and was invited to a BBQ at the "girls" house (Mrs. D & Mrs. C). I naturally called Mr. D and invited him to the BBQ. He gave me the standard answer of "Oh I don't know...." So I just went without him. We hung out maybe 2 times after this....once a week. Then at the end of September, I met Mr. J2. So it was Friday and no word from Mr. D.....totally normal. I went out with the girls to the casino.....Mr. J2 showed up also. I received a phone call from Mr. D around 10:30 pm. We talked on the phone for a little bit.....I invited him up to the casino......he declined but wanted to go to a movie with me. So he explained his "business" trip to California to me in depth. Turns out that he got "lucky" with a couple gals while he was down there. So there ends the "relationship" with Mr. D. Unfortunately by my thoughts.....I should have known better. For all the times I tried and he pushed me away! We are actually still friends now due to what happened with Mr. J2. And I can't believe it.....due to I treated him bad by not calling him for 2 months to explain what was going on. Who knows.....maybe someday it might work out with us. But let me tell you.....I can talk to him about anything now! (I will explain later.) Here's to forgiveness and huge hearts! :)